The mind!

Why is it that our insecurity always get the best of us? We all have them at some point and time in our life's. The first sign of a change in a person brings up signs and the our thoughts go running. I think it is from the time that we start falling for someone fast and hard then we feel comfortable we are good in what the relationship has to offer. Its the times that we become insecure with our self's is when it rolls onto something or someone else. Your first loves you feel like they will never leave and you have no worries its at that point when we have been put to the test and the anger comes out. We really never heal from that until someone can comfort those thoughts. Lets stop thinking of the what ifs and live in the now, let it be what it is and take comfort in that.